Is this weird?

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Is this weird?
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Sun, 08-24-2008 - 11:14pm
Does or has anyone had ideas or fantasize about reconciling with their STBX, no matter how big a jerk they are? Am I incredibly weird or is this one of those "stages"?
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Registered: 10-25-2006
In reply to: mandi_d_o
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 10:30am

Mandi,


Is it "weird" to want to reconcile? NOPE. Totally normal!


That's because we want them to behave like we want/wish they would, i.e. stop acting like adolescent boys and grow up. ;-)


I dont' recall the exact circumstances of your split but if you think there's an opportunity to at least talk to him about why there's a divorce on the table and that you'd like some time to sort things out, I say go for it.


CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 07-29-2003
In reply to: mandi_d_o
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 1:35pm

I think it's absolutely understandable

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Registered: 08-15-2006
In reply to: mandi_d_o
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 4:44pm
I had those fantazing, those dreams of
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Registered: 12-03-2005
In reply to: mandi_d_o
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 11:32pm

Thanks for the post.