Well, got the "goodbye" letter from STBX

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Registered: 01-13-2004
Well, got the "goodbye" letter from STBX
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Thu, 09-07-2006 - 4:12pm

Well, STBX sent me an email today saying goodbye and sorry and blah blah blah. Signed it, "I love you always, Derek". I choked at first and then went back and re-read it. I don't even know this man anymore. The way he writes, talks, is all a flashback to the OW and what she had to say and always said. It literallly then made me sick.

I have mixed emotions right now and I can't not say I feel a bit sad. What happened to this man? Geez.

On a sillier note, he also said that he's going to meet with his attorney to review the proposal me and my attorney sent to them. I'm sure he won't be telling me he loves me after he sees that.

I guess I have to try and make light of it somehow because I can't get into that "beating myself up and trying to understand the whole thing" mode again.

Hugs,
Jennifer

Jennifer

Proud Mom of Travis (15) and Mandi (10)

and our pets, Sully the Dog and Till

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Registered: 03-19-2003

Making light of it is a good thing!... and when he sees the proposal, if he changes his tone, I'd be quick to remind him, "but you said you'd always love me"


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~