Well he was served last nite!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-16-2005
Well he was served last nite!!
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Fri, 09-16-2005 - 3:12pm
But..i am so angry..the process server called me and said STBX would not even acknowledge him and walked right by him so the server guy threw them at his feet and left..He has been cheating for over a year on me and may possibly have a love child and he wont even accept divorce papers...UGGHHH where do i go from here??? any suggestions if STBX doesnt answer my petition?? thanks everyone
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2005
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 3:27pm

I believe that he has to respond within a certain time, or he's in contempt of court. My STBX left a petition for me at the sherriff's office; I had to go and get it. Then my attorney filed a certain paper, saying I had picked it up. That's how it is here anyhow.

Barb S. in IL

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-16-2005
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 3:46pm
thanks barb..i am in illinois also...i just dont think that he will even acknowledge that he got the papers even though my attorney said he was served..he is ignoring me now and is mad that i served him but enough is enough...cheating and lying and possibly a baby..my poor son is all i can think about..how do u tell an 8 year old he may have a half sister out there....of course i wont until i get a dna test done!!! i am in west burbs of chicago
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Registered: 11-02-2004
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 11:24pm

In Wisconsin, they'll actually issue a warranty for their arrest if they don't respond within given time. They will also put leins on property etc really putting them in

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