Well I got severed

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
Well I got severed
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Wed, 07-13-2005 - 6:54pm
Well I got severed the petion for divorce tonight. I guess I really have to pull my self together now and try to figure this out. It is all so real now seeing it in black and white looking at me on the paper.
wildthing siggy
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2004
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 7:10pm

Hi ans


Yes it is a shock when you finally see the papers..at least he gave them to you,,I got mine thru the mail..the day after Thanksgiving 2003..and I found out that he wanted a D by finding a letter he had written waiting for me on the countertop one morning,he did not even have the balls to tell me to my face..


sb


"I am nothing special; of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts, and I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but I've loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough".


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2004
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 11:02pm
Sue, I am sorry. I've been in your shoes and know how much it hurts.
Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

Community Leader
Registered: 01-03-2004
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 10:36am

Sue,
As painful as it is to finally get "notice" a decision has been made and now you have to act. Your attorney can advise you on next steps. In the meantime, get busy and collect all the information you can about your bank accounts, credit cards, loans, insurance policies, investments, and titles to any cars or other vehicles. You'll need all this information for a fair accounting of what is at stake.

Good luck.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2005
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 2:34pm
I did that starting from DDay. Got every scrap of anything and made copies..Was very helpful.
Get it while you can. Now he went paperless..LOLOL I still have enough info.