What are odds of support if no kids?
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What are odds of support if no kids?
| Fri, 07-04-2008 - 11:10pm |
I have so many questions going through my head and have yet been able to talk to a lawyer. My husband of 11 years wants a divorce. We don't have any children. He wouldn't use a condom, didn't want me to take birth control pills because of cancer scare, didn't want kids so I ended up having my tubes tied. Now, I'm about to lose the one thing I thought was solid, my marriage, and I realize if I should ever meet someone in my future I can't provide kids to them. I'm getting off track...does anyone know what the odds are of getting a settlement if we didn't have kids? Everythng is in his name. The cars, the checking account, our house was his before I met him, so nothing is in my name. Am I about to get screwed?

Jo,
Hi. Welcome to the board.
Only an attorney can properly advise you of your rights and responsibilities in the event of divorce. Laws vary from state to state. So make an appointment with an attorney ASAP. Take with you copies of your tax return, bills, bank statements, and any insurance policies, retirement accounts, or other financial documents. It doesn't matter if things are in his name only. Most states recognize marriage as a business relationship and you may be entitled to partial equity in the home, retirement, etc.
Again, only a lawyer can properly advise you. Write down your questions so you use your time wisely at your consult.
As for him buying things from you, my advice is make an inventory of everything in the home: furniture, art, autos, etc. I'd also buy a disposable camera and take pictures of everything. If you do agree to sell things to him, I'd find out a fair market price.
Good luck.
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
I agree that you need to talk to an atty about your specific case.
There is a diff. between property division & alimony.
thank you everyone for your responses. I've spoken with some attorneys and don't feel much better. One just told me to sit still and wait and see what he does???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the other told me better things, but his retainer is $2500.00!!!! Can you say "good God"?
I'm beginning to feel defeated. But I appreciate everyone's thoughts and advice.