What to do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2005
What to do?
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Sat, 09-09-2006 - 9:51am
Three wks ago my husband told me of his affair. I had no clue to this. Come to find out I know her she lives in the next block. Since we have been back to town he has spent every night with her. I've stayed at my friends house but have been back home during the day and have spoken to him due to finances. Now I have found he has cleaned out the bank account on bars he has taken his girlfriend to. We have just moved into a house which I have not changed addresses as of yet. The bills are in his name he says I can have the house but who can belive him. He is back out of town working I have a little time to figure out what to do. Need some advise. This guy has drug me threw the coals.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2004
In reply to: sherrygirl888
Sat, 09-09-2006 - 9:59am

You must be in such shock! I hope you're holding up OK.


I would say the first thing you should do is to go consult an attorney. Find out what your rights and responsibilities are. Once I did that, I felt a million times better.


Also, you might find the Betrayed Spouses board helpful:


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rladultery


Keep us posted on how things are going!


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2005
In reply to: sherrygirl888
Sat, 09-09-2006 - 10:43am
Thanks for your support. I'm sitting threw this weekend just waiting to speak to one. Thank again! I am holding up but I do have my moments.