What to do about limbo!?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
What to do about limbo!?
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Mon, 05-08-2006 - 2:05pm

I have been trying to get divorced for 4 years and while my situation is a precarious one at best, I am tired of this nebulous state of existence.


I am not in a rush to get married cause I am loving my life right now.

Peace,

Di

***If you cannot define yourself, your circumstances will.***

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 10:33pm

UGH!.... 4 years.... you have every right to be a LOT moany... vent away... any time!


I don't blame you for not feeling motivated to do anything with the house.... and that in itself can enhance the unmotivation mode.


I wish I could make him go away.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2003
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 11:02am
Have you filed suit for divorce? Most states have specific timelines -- so that if the parties do not reach agreement on their own they go to trial or a judge settles it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2004
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 11:33am

Di, after four YEARS, you're allowed to vent as MUCH as you want! I was going berserk after just under one year, let alone four.


Are there any reasonable options you have to make this move along? I know I had to make a lot of concessions I wasn't really happy about, but I couldn't stand dragging the divorce on any longer. I can only imagine how hard this waiting game must be for you.




How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.
- Anne Frank