- What To Do With All The Memories_

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Registered: 01-02-2006
- What To Do With All The Memories_
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Sat, 07-19-2008 - 1:24am

After 18 years of marriage, it's almost over.

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Registered: 07-17-2008
Sat, 07-19-2008 - 6:40am

Hi Dionne,

I am going through a divorce myself. My husband has been cybercheating with a women from China. Found the video showing him saying how he appreciates her response to all of his emails, pictures, and thought it would be a good idea of sending her a video of himself and hopes to meet her in China one day. SOOOOOO.....

What I did (and cried and cried) is got a box put all of our wedding pictures, vacation pictures, etc. in and sealed it. Put my husbands name on it and placed it in the attic. I now can walk around the house not seeing that face 24/7. Anyway you have a daughter when she gets older you can give her the box. Maybe before you seal it up write a letter to her about you feelings, by the time she opens it she will be more mature and understand what you are going through now.

Hope that helps. It is very difficult going through a divorce.

Take care!

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Registered: 01-02-2006
Sat, 07-19-2008 - 1:55pm
Thank you.
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Registered: 06-09-2008
Sun, 07-20-2008 - 7:21am
That is a great idea! I've seperated all the pics of just me and the kids but didn't know what to do with the rest.