what do i do now?
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| Thu, 10-19-2006 - 10:15pm |
My husband and I were married for 7 years. He as a lot of issues, including serious depression that he will not address. Anyway, we have 3 kids. We have gotten separated, and I am still hanging on to this notion that we can work it out. We have 3 kids, right? If he gets help, we can make it work? I have been willing to try.
He has been 'gone' for 2 months. We finally have a couple of nice visists together, and he tells me he is willing to try. We get 'intimate'...and now (2days later) he tells me he just can't make the changes and face what he needs to. Am I a fool or what?! Do I give him the chance to work out his emotional problems or do I run?
It is so hard to do this with the kids.
I seem to attract emotionally unavailable men. I had my son young (at 22) and that relationship didn't work out, I marry a great guy (or so I thought) and that hasn't worked out. I don't get it. I am able to take care of myself. I have a great family, great job, my education, and of course my kids. I am 32 and I feel like I am stuck in my life rightnow.

I know how ya feel!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~