what to do when your ex is a bully???
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what to do when your ex is a bully???
| Wed, 02-13-2008 - 11:25am |
So quick re-cap for those who may have missed some of my posts...and will try not to ramble:
- With Ex for 5 years, left in Sept 07 after finding out he had a 21 year old g/f (yeah pathetic hes 43)
- Have joint custody of our 2 year old daughter with me as primary residence ) he gets her 1 o/n a week - Saturday being his designated day until the low life goes back to work in April, then he will take her tuesdays
- He doesnt have a car or valid license so I bring her to him and pick her up every weekend and he is supposed to reimburse for gas. So far I have gotten $10 on one trip and a $10 check and $2 in cash the second weekend he had her ( its exactly 34.8 miles door to door one way with $.70 in tolls one way)
- The g/f moved in 48 hours after I moved out (after he begged on hands and knees for me to stay then called me every name in the book and said i ruined the family with my selfish pride)
- Skip ahead to super bowl weekend...Suddenly with no warning his father who he has not talked to in 28 years was on his death bed...couldnt take the baby

Well..... technically, your parenting plan should state "one overnight per week on Saturday or another mutually agreeable day".
Certianly you shouldn't be expected to give up and be available every single Saturday... and if he's not working, and you offered a reasonable trade in advance, well then he can likely kiss your sweet tootie if he wants to be a jerk about it.... but better to get your attorney's advice before you "deny" him a visit.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~