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| Mon, 06-11-2007 - 11:40am |
Stbx and gf broke up 2 months ago and since then we have been talking almost everyday.We didnt talk for 2 years because of anger issues with both of us.We have been hanging out and having sex for the last 2 weeks and get along better than we did when we were together.I think its because we arent together all the time and dont have and responsibilities together especially financial since that was our biggest problem.I know he still has feelings for xgf but she has moved on to someone else actually she had done that before they split.Thats what she does after she breaks up marriages.He said he never cheated when we were together and I believe him but I also told him there were other ways to cheat besides sex.I asked if he would have left if she wouldnt have been there waiting and he said probably not.He cant handle being alone and would have rather stayed in a bad marriage.He says he doesnt want to interfere in my life says he knows I am happy and have moved on.What do you think about this relationship?I know that most people say never to have sex with their stbx but right now it seems right.I told him it was just sex that we were friends w/benefits.My friends all think he wants me backbut im not sure.He says he loves me as a friend but doesnt want to get back together.My friends think he is saying that to protect himself because I told him its just sex.He said he cant just have sex he gets attached that is just how he is but he still keeps calling.I worry that if I keep doing this I could get attached again and end up getting hurt.He says that after what he has been through he isnt looking and doesnt want anyone.What do you think?Am i just fooling myself and am really making a big mistake?Thanks for your thought.

May be he now sees how much you mean to him and he does want this marriage but if he is just using you to fill out the empty space then you are going to get hurt again.
I hope I am not being to hard ...good luck.
Hugs, Brenda