What do you think of this??

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Registered: 10-10-2003
What do you think of this??
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Tue, 05-13-2008 - 7:49pm
Hey all just looking for some feedback here. My H is currently living with OW, we were discussing bills, and he was telling me he didnt have enough to pay some of his.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2003
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 2:04am
Yes there are 4 different dads, 6 kids. Mine are 23 and 17 almost out the door! Yeah It really suprises me how
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 10:32am

Isn't it pathetic that this mom allows her little son to call your DH "daddy" after such a short term relationship.

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 11:40am

Hi Marylee,


It's been my observation over the years that when men in long-term marriages take up with another woman that they are some how trying to recapture their youth. (It sounds like the woman he's seeing is young with young children.)


I think women are better at embracing where they are in life. They start new careers or reinvent themselves in ways that usually (not always) affect the marriage. Men seem to say "Oh, God! I'm 50! My wife is 50! My kids are grown! I'm not 18 any more! And then they run out and get a "twinkie" (my term) and try to be 18 age.


Movingonthistime was right about something else, too. Men forget that the wives they leave behind also make a decision to "move on," and for some reason this is a surprise to them.

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 11-25-2003
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 12:32pm

Hi marylee,


My thoughts follow.


<<My H is currently living with OW>>

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2003
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 8:28pm
Hi Thanks for your reply!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2003
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 8:41pm
Hello I wanted to thankyou for reading my post, and your reply. My H has issues, hes made a terrible mistake. And yes my head tells me to

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