What else can I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2004
What else can I do?
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Thu, 12-08-2005 - 1:06pm
Hi, I have not posted on this board before, but I could use some advice. I have been married almost three years and I am having tremendous problems. I cannot communicate with my husband. He argues with me every day to every other day on various issues. It can be anything from food to work. I try to explain he is making me stressed but it makes him more angry. He thinks I hate him because I have started arguing back. He can't talk to me because he's just fussing about me. I can't talk to him about how I feel beacuse he gets upset and wants to ignore the problem. I feel like I'm going crazy and have come to a dead end. I have tried everything to understand how he is feeling and let him know how I'm feeling. Nothing seems to work. I try to talk in a reasonable manner but it ends in a screaming match. Is there anything else I can do? Has it come down to marital therapy or worse? I can't stand another day with this stress. I need some advice. Thanks for any replies.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 12-08-2005 - 4:49pm

Have you tried writing him a letter?..... and giving it to him where he can't talk to you for several hours afterward... so that he has time to really read it, think about it... and cool off?


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~