what I'd like to email his family

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Registered: 06-04-2006
what I'd like to email his family
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Sun, 08-06-2006 - 11:56pm
I can not believe that you can condone and APPROVE OF KEVIN'S BEHAVIOR. We have been married since 1998, we got together over a year before that. He has been cheating on me since at least 2001, that I know of, I have cards from his mistress. He has admittedly gambled over 100,000 dollars, I had a women call me in 2003 and tell me she was the other women, I found condoms in 3 different parts of our house, ( the garage, and his closet and brief case) I found his business cards with over 15 names and telephone numbers of prostitutes and dominatrices, who when I called and spoke to them they knew Kevin,I found sex toys as well, he also made a point of letting me listen to him on the telephone having sex with another women, he has business that he has not told me about, and has made at leaste $5000 dollara am onth more then I knew about, he on a regular basis was MEAN - FLAT OUT VERBALLY ABUSIVE TO ME, and then the last straw he was verbally abusive to our innocent children. He physically pushed me around and tried to leave me stranded in Arizona. Now he refuses to pay for anything. Our electricity will be turned off soon, I have resorted to selling anything I can to get money, including my wedding dress and soon my ring. I tried all of Dr. Laura's techniques only too be refused by Kevin. Imagine how horrible you would feel if your husband ( who under no circumstance would tell you where he was going, for years I asked for itineraries, only to have him say my memory was bad, but he would not actually tell me where he would go) would sexually refuse you, in your lingerie and stripper boots after being on a long trip from home. I think you are all evil for protecting and helping him not take care of me or our children. You may look good on the outside, but you will always know what kind of people you really are. Obviously if Kevin went 19 years paying $200 in child support for Kortni, he did not have her best interest in mind, it is all about money to him, he does not care about his boys either. He has made that abundantly clear. He has gone out of his way to say things in front of them, such as you will have to move because I want a house boat, or I am going to take the dog, there are too many example to write. You all know that I have no family, but regardless of how this affects the children, you still support him. Your reaction to his unforgivable behavior is despicable and you should feel ashamed of yourself !!!!!
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 2:58pm

Wow... he sounds like a loser!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 06-04-2006
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 3:22pm
I would love to have, but of course I didn't. I am trying very hard to just do what's in front of me. This has been a horrific experience for me, he keeps telling my children that "mommies a lier, she's going to give the dog away" etc. When I say my mother in law at church she gave me the most hateful look, and completely ignored her grandchildren. Somehow they have all managed to turn me into the bad guy, becuase I no longer wanted to be treated like dirt, and I was feed up with husband having a secret life. I appreciate that I was able to vent, I think it helps.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 3:30pm

Just remember.... it's difficult for any parent to think their own child isn't Saintly... and even though she may have some suspicions (or facts) she's still going to defend her child... so, in light of that, try not to take her behavior too seriously.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 06-04-2006
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 10:49pm
thank you so much for your replies, I'm starting to feel so isolated becuase I am just sick of complaining to my friends. This is and has been a complete nightmare. If I just get started in writing all the awful things that have happened in the last 3 months, actually last 6 years, I become exhuasted, it is so unbelievable the magnatude of it all. I just keep telling myself to look to the future and give up trying to figure it out. I know eventually this will be a distant memory. I just pray that my children are not permanently emotionally damaged too much by everything. I know my attempts to protect them can only go so far, and then the rest is out of my control. Again thanks, I'm sorry this is so long.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 11:42pm

Oh, now don't apologize.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~