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What is the next step?
| Thu, 05-29-2008 - 9:22am |
First time here...hello everyone. Geez so where to start...I've been married for 5 years and have a 3 year old son. And to be honest and perfectly straightforward I do not love my husband. I haven't for a long time. It kills me to say it out loud and I have held it in for such a long time until just recently.

Hi~
I have been in your situation minus the children part and would have to tell you that if you don't love him, no counseling in the world is going to bring that back.
I was married for 5 years and dated 3 years before, and toward the end when I was trying to hold on, I lost 30 pounds, could not sleep, and was absolutely miserable.
Thank you so much for your words. I feel like I can atleast give him the respect of trying out the counseling. It's difficult to be in this situation and not feel like a total jerk, but I so agree with you when you say "Doesn't he deserve some one who loves him."
Again...thank you.