What should I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-01-2007
What should I do?
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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 12:42am
Hi folks my wife of 25 years has been having an affair w/ the neighbor.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2008
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 6:00am
Go to counseling before you even consider living under the same roof again. What are her motives for moving home? What has/can change to make the relationship better this time around? A professional can help you with those things. Good luck!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-07-2008
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 4:24pm

the other poster idea of going to counseling before you make your decision is a wonderful idea.

KLM
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2001
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 4:38pm

I too agree to the counseling.


Also, ask yourself and her the following:


Will you ever be able to trust her again?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2008
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 5:56pm

Mr. Steakman;


You talk about your wife moving in with the neighbor after leaving you and your children?? I don't see how couseling could ever make up for that stab in the back. How are your kids? I'm sure they might benefit from talking to a professional just to get their feelings heard. Good luck to you and your family. I'm sure you will find a way out of this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2005
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:19pm
I doubt that would be a good move on your part.

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Registered: 03-24-2008
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 5:04pm

Marriage without trust isn't a marriage.

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