what to take, what to leave, & how
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what to take, what to leave, & how
| Wed, 07-30-2008 - 12:44pm |
Hello, a lurker I am on this boards..I usually hang out in the LDR parts, long story..anyway..I need some advice please.
A little background....married 10 years, together 12, not happy for about 4 or 5 years and we both know it. We don't do anything together, but if you saw us out in a public place, you would think we didnt even know each other. I have asked for a divorce last year. Due to a long set of horrible circumstances, I'm still living in the house with him. We don't sleep in the same room, we dont eat together, talk,

In one respect my situation is a little easier since we have only been liv. together 6 yrs (married 5) so it's easy to say that if one of us owned something before the marriage, we will take that.
My STBX and I went through the house room by room and we each said what we wanted.
Thanks for yalls replies!!
Yeah, but the biggest thing for us will be the "I dont care who gets it". I think we can talk enough to get me out of the house. hahaha.....but neither of us is really going to care who gets what. I just dont want to leave him with a mess of a house with all my junk I either dont want or have no room for, but then again, I dont want to leave im with an empty house either.. Neither of us is too selfish to say..I WANT THAT and you can't have it!! You KWIM? I guess I just need to start throwing my stuff out or packing it up for storage. Hmm..more to think about.