what to take, what to leave, & how

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Registered: 05-31-2008
what to take, what to leave, & how
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Wed, 07-30-2008 - 12:44pm

Hello, a lurker I am on this boards..I usually hang out in the LDR parts, long story..anyway..I need some advice please.


A little background....married 10 years, together 12, not happy for about 4 or 5 years and we both know it. We don't do anything together, but if you saw us out in a public place, you would think we didnt even know each other. I have asked for a divorce last year. Due to a long set of horrible circumstances, I'm still living in the house with him. We don't sleep in the same room, we dont eat together, talk,

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 07-30-2008 - 3:15pm

In one respect my situation is a little easier since we have only been liv. together 6 yrs (married 5) so it's easy to say that if one of us owned something before the marriage, we will take that.

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Registered: 03-17-2005
Wed, 07-30-2008 - 10:31pm

My STBX and I went through the house room by room and we each said what we wanted.

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Registered: 05-31-2008
Thu, 07-31-2008 - 9:21am

Thanks for yalls replies!!


Yeah, but the biggest thing for us will be the "I dont care who gets it". I think we can talk enough to get me out of the house. hahaha.....but neither of us is really going to care who gets what. I just dont want to leave him with a mess of a house with all my junk I either dont want or have no room for, but then again, I dont want to leave im with an empty house either.. Neither of us is too selfish to say..I WANT THAT and you can't have it!! You KWIM? I guess I just need to start throwing my stuff out or packing it up for storage. Hmm..more to think about.