What a time for a divorce!
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| Mon, 12-03-2007 - 9:18pm |
I guess I couldn't pick a worse time of the year...cold and the holidays. Even though I think this is the right thing to do, it still really stinks. My daughter is 2 and I hate the thought of her not having both parents...hate the thought of holidays without her (all that shared parenting!) and to top if off, my mother (who is divorced) keeps telling me I'm making a horrible mistake. I don't think that I am, but I do know it will be tough some times. I guess we'll see how tough....DH and I are sitting down Thursday night to see if we can come to an agreement without getting lawyers involved. I'm hopeful but I'm asking for a lot of Child support so I can finish grad school without going back to work. Now I'm starting to feel "lonely" and I haven't even left yet! Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for "listening"

I know what you mean. I told my ex that I wanted a divorce after finding out about his affair on Dec. 15th of last year. He stayed here through xmas as we didn't tell anyone until after the holidays. He moved out on the 26th of Dec. This time of year sucks. I'm sorry. I don't have any advice, but I know how you feel and I'm sending you and your daughter ((((hugs)))).
Karie
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To all of you going thru this mess this time of year - I offer you hope.
I was you last year.