What's next?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2007
What's next?
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 11:00pm

Ok, I have so much to let out that I do not know where to begin.


I've been married to my soon to be ex for 71/2 years; during those years we had two beautiful children.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2006
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 8:29am

It WILL get better BUT you have to stay away from him. Your arrangement is so confusing for the kids. If you can't afford the house you will need to get a place you can afford WITHOUT him. You need to have legal papers drawn up regarding child support, custody and visitation. The emotions are too high to have just a verbal agreement. Good luck. I know how hard it is BUT you have to put your kids first and protect them!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 11:12am

Do you think you will be able to sell the house to avoid foreclosure?