When ex's want favors and they're.....
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| Tue, 08-22-2006 - 2:20pm |
so nasty.
Ladies, Im really trying to be a good parent and not let what happened cause me to be bitter. Lord it's hard. I started going to church again (started sunday that passed) and intend on trying to go every sunday hereafter. Well whenever ex calls especially before I have ds with me I made it a point not to answer the phone. If it's important he can leave a message. The less contact the better. He called yesterday, no message, oh well. He called again last night. Asked for ds and when I was going to give him the phone he said wait wait, I knew something was coming. His time is from 11am to 6pm. He asked if he could get him at 8am.
I said well I cant promise anything, that's really early. I didnt tell him this but on Saturdays is when I let him sleep late and try to do the same. So I said well I have to make sure he gets fed his breakfast. He's like I'll feed him. There was a fiasco like this before and Im not going through that again where he wanted to fed him in the truck etc. His reason for all this is he's planned to go to NJ, something important to him he says and he wants to take ds and has to leave by 8am. I said well like I said I have to feed him his breakfast but you have to give me time in case Im not done by 8am. He says how long, I said at least 15min to a half hour. He's like he can wait 10 or 15min but no longer because he doesnt want to drive fast with him in the car. My antennas go up. That is not the way to convince me to let him go earlier talking about driving fast and I told him you shouldnt be driving fast with him period. He gets an attitude telling me how all I have to do is wake him up early. Heck No. He doesnt realize that in order to do this for him I have to put myself out and Im really not inclined to do anything for him. Im trying to think of ds though. I ended up hanging up on him because here he is asking for a favor and then giving me an attitude. I waited a while and called back and gave him a piece of my mind as to how he only wants to talk when he wants to dont expect to ask me for favors and act like that. The end result is hey Im gonna attempt to do this if Im not ready by 8 or 8:15 and he refuses to wait to 8:30 then I guess he'll cancel his visit. He's got alot of nerve. He just really irks me.
Just needed to vent.

I know this is a long stretch.... but is it possible for him to pick up DS the night before?
I'm with ya about wanting to sleep in.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~