When is he going to give up
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| Fri, 10-14-2005 - 12:01pm |
You know my ex goes from one thing to another. He's supposed to get the baby tomorrow and now he is starting in on the electronics he wants from the house. Basically the entertainment items in my bedroom and the big stereo from the l.v. I mean he's supposedly moving from his g.m. house into his own place or room or whatever and a year and a half later he now wants these items. So I should have to replace these things after he ruined our family. Am I being unfair if I dont give them to him? I dont see why I should have to give up these items myself and my son have been used to all this time. I think he's moving in with the gf and I should give up my stuff for them to watch.
He's got a little beligerent just now was yelling, saying I still have a hold on him, why dont I let him go and give him what he wants.
What should I do. I have no way of buying that stuff back anytime soon. Tells me to do without until I can replace it. He had to do without until he could replace it. Why does he keep agravating me.

He might never stop attempting to aggravate you.
I cant take it anymore. Im just gonna give him a tv, vcr and dvd and one of the stereos.
Im SICK OF THIS CRAP. My God whats wrong with him. I always have to be the bigger person! Lord in heaven. He was begging me for the stuff saying he doesnt want to hate me but if I dont give him these few things he wants its not right. Saying he put all the furniture in the apt this is the least I can do.
Sweetie, I would say that it is abandonded by him and that if he wants it he needs to take you to court to get it. I mean, he's had a year and a half to reclaim these things, what right does he have to them now? They aren't 'his' things anymore. As far as him harassing you about it when he calls, ugh...what an infant! No wonder your DS remember him after several months, he can relate on an intellectual level! LOL When he calls about seeing DS and he asks about 'his stuff' just say,"I see you're done talking about DS, so, I'll talk to you later" and hang up the phone.
I can understand why you want to just cave on this and let him have it, I'm sure this is stressful. I would just be afraid that this is going to send him the message that he can continue to walk all over you like he always has.
Hey, if nothing else, go ahead and give it back to him. However, perhaps DS, being the toddler he is, oh, I don't know, put a full jar of peanut butter in the VCR
Giving him back to him rewards his annoying, pestering, irrational behavior.