When will it stop hurting?

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Registered: 07-03-2003
When will it stop hurting?
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Wed, 06-04-2008 - 3:46pm

Our joint bank account is still open, looks like he's been eating for 2 at a few restaurants.

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 8:13pm

Hang in there..........it's get better.

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Registered: 04-27-2008
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 8:28pm
Hi Roxanne
I am new to this particular board but been on surviving D&S for four months. (Just now ready to explore the dating thingy soon ;) I just want to tell you that I understand you worrying about where he is spending his money (especially if it's with another woman). I can tell you that two months ago I stopped opening my STBX's bank statements, and as hard as it was, it was also very liberating--mine was spending his on booze and God knows what else :S You don't need to bother yourself worrying about his financial affairs. Hopefully he will come around soon to see his daughter, it took my STBX four months to make contact with the kids (they are 23 and 19). I wish you well, and keep us posted!!