When your left processing it all and your ex is having the time of his life.
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|Sun, 07-31-2011 - 7:34am|
I was told earlier this July by my son's dad that he doesnt love me and doesnt want to live with me anymore that we can stay in the same house for 6months to a year and save money each to put aside for our own place. I was devistated. I saw he had been online setting up dating profiles, had suddenly had new friends I had never met. We live somewhere for his job where I have no friends or family and travel to work nights as a nurse 45 miles away. He is a cop locally and works alternating nights. So only one saturday every other week would we be home at night together as was our schedule always for the past 3 years. We have two sons one 3 year old and I had a five year old when we got together who is now 11. I felt one day he took his frustration out on my 11 year old while cutting the lawn I saw my 11 year old crying, there was a heat wave that day in florida and I heard him tell my 11 year old that he was too lazy,and since he cant push the lawn mower without crying he needs to run 10 laps around the house. I went outside gave my child ice water and a wet towel to wrap around his head. He came out of the shower dizzy and his heart rate was racing arrythmia, my knowledge as a nurse was immediatley dismissed by my ex