Why Am I Boy Crazy?

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Registered: 02-01-2004
Why Am I Boy Crazy?
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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 6:14pm

What is wrong with me?


Here I am not even quit divorced, 40 yrs old with 2 small children. I am coming out of a verbally abusive realtionship and I actually want to start dating.... Well it is not that I want to start, but I feel like I am boy crazy. This is so wierd, I know I am not ready to actually "date" anyone person, but I like to go out on dates. One part of me is looking for some sort of realtionship and the other part of me is saying no way hold back.


Wierd, not sure what to do with all this commotion!


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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 11-03-2008 - 1:23pm
I'm getting a chuckle at you ladies in your 30's who feel that you are old! I'm 51 and my kids are 13 & 19. In one way it's easier cause my kids aren't totally dependent on me any more, but the prospects of meeting someone do grow dimmer w/ age. I look at guys my age and generally they aren't that attractive, but then I'm not that great looking either, so the gorgeous ones aren't going to go for me. Plus I just don't want to have to deal (again) w/ someone's kids from the 1st marriage, possible exW drama (I didn't have that as my 2nd DH was a widower, but he didn't get along w/ his late W's mother.) So sometimes I think that I don't even care about meeting someone else, that I will be happy if I just have women friends to do things with, then other times, I am fantasizing about every guy I see, like the man who refinished my floors, my next door neighbor's brother, etc. It's not like I expect anything to develop, I just think about men. Well, I suppose that never stops.

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