Why am I still suprised when he pulls
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Why am I still suprised when he pulls
| Wed, 01-18-2006 - 10:37pm |
this stuff?!!!
Now he is bothering me about my dd in year 3 of her college education. Apparently in order for her to be covered under his companies insurance she must be one of his excemptions on his federal taxes. Well I claimed her last year in order for her to be eligible for more federal loans and now his company is threatening to make him pay back a whole year of insurance. Then he tells me that he can file an amendment to the tax and reclaim her as a dependant! I tell him no way - then the loans can be revoked! Plus then I would owe back taxes!! So then he asks me what are "we" going to do about the almost $4000.00 he owes for insurance!!!! WE? No way - there is no WE anymore. Whatever mistakes he made last year on her eligibilty is his fault and his penalty to pay!!!
So I ask again - Why am I still surprised when he pulls this stuff?
Have any of you had to go thru this? His income is 2 1/2 times mine so if she is his dependant then she qualifies for little or no money. Yet he dosen't offer her any of his $$$. He hasn't paid one cent toward her college. I paid for the first two years while we were still married - and he still thinks I "owe" him money!! He refused to give her the "free" scholarship that his company offers. He said that he had to pay $500.00 in taxes for that money?!!! Totally untrue. I found out from the man in charge of the fund that his company actually adds $50.00 per week to his gross pay and taxes that!
What is a college kid suppose to do for health insurance? I'm checking into adding her to mine where I work, but if I have to pay a lot out of pocket to put her on I can't afford it!
Any suggestions or advise would be greatly appreciated as always. Thanks for letting me rant a little too! ;}
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Now he is bothering me about my dd in year 3 of her college education. Apparently in order for her to be covered under his companies insurance she must be one of his excemptions on his federal taxes. Well I claimed her last year in order for her to be eligible for more federal loans and now his company is threatening to make him pay back a whole year of insurance. Then he tells me that he can file an amendment to the tax and reclaim her as a dependant! I tell him no way - then the loans can be revoked! Plus then I would owe back taxes!! So then he asks me what are "we" going to do about the almost $4000.00 he owes for insurance!!!! WE? No way - there is no WE anymore. Whatever mistakes he made last year on her eligibilty is his fault and his penalty to pay!!!
So I ask again - Why am I still surprised when he pulls this stuff?
Have any of you had to go thru this? His income is 2 1/2 times mine so if she is his dependant then she qualifies for little or no money. Yet he dosen't offer her any of his $$$. He hasn't paid one cent toward her college. I paid for the first two years while we were still married - and he still thinks I "owe" him money!! He refused to give her the "free" scholarship that his company offers. He said that he had to pay $500.00 in taxes for that money?!!! Totally untrue. I found out from the man in charge of the fund that his company actually adds $50.00 per week to his gross pay and taxes that!
What is a college kid suppose to do for health insurance? I'm checking into adding her to mine where I work, but if I have to pay a lot out of pocket to put her on I can't afford it!
Any suggestions or advise would be greatly appreciated as always. Thanks for letting me rant a little too! ;}
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