Why did I ever have kids ????

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Why did I ever have kids ????
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Thu, 06-15-2006 - 4:14pm

Well, my DS(12) was finally served with court papers today (his accomplice friend should have been served, as well). He is charged with 3 counts of criminal mischief to personal property over $100. His court date is set for next Wednesday, June 21st at 9:45am. GREAT! My husband has eye surgery scheduled for 11:00 am that day so I had already taken the day off. My husband called the surgery center to see if they could reschedule. The next opening they have is late next month. This means all of his pre-surgery blood work will have expired and he will have to get it done all over. So, he contacted the court to reschedule. They told him to contact the prosecutor. He is awaiting a return call from him.

Then, because I am so stupid and will never learn, I sent his father an e-mail to notify him that he had just been served. He replies asking when I found this out and notifies me he will be in Japan. DUH! I told him it had just happened. I sent him another e-mail explaining the dilemma mentioned above. He calls me a few hours later inquiring as to what was going on. I told him we were waiting for a call from the prosecutor. He then asks me the prosecutors name-so I told him. He “needs” to know so he can reschedule his trip, if necessary. So, he thinks by him calling the prosecutor we will have answers faster??? Don’t they know who he is??? This is so typical of him.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 06-15-2006 - 11:46pm

So... your EX thinks he's somebody special?.... I love that type!.... NOT!


Good luck.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 05-29-2006
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 1:38am
Well your ex is who his is. I ignore him. I consider the source. DUH Hello AS WE SAY TO EACH OTHER/. We have had this discussion numerous times as obviuously I am now your husband. Ignore him. Do not even contact him. I have told you that many times. Not to control you but hey guess what you taught me about him and also I was very aware after a while / I gave him many chances to talk and he does not even have a clue as to how to be a man / ex or a dad.Do just as we need to and never mind him. And I know your sorry you ever introduced me to I-village. You said that to me tonite. I do not need I-village to know what to do . However it is a good outlet, I have learned a few things and one I support you on here unlike other sites. For you.
Also just to let your readers know I support you in every way. Your my wife and I will tell the world right now how much I love you even when we disagree. I will tell the world now I would love to have a child with you even at my age 49 yrs old , and know why???? Because I love and respect you. YOU HAD KIDS WITH THE WRONG GUY! Forget him, let it go sweetie. Stop dwelling on the past! And we will deal with life on life terms whatever needs to be done will be and we will handle it. Including my issues.if I have to put my surgery off I will for my stepson. And BTW your far from stupid! I love you.