Why do I keep going backwards?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2008
Why do I keep going backwards?
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Thu, 09-04-2008 - 10:34am

Okay, so I've posted about this before, knowing that I'm only human and wish that things could have turned out differently....but why????? do I keep taking steps backwards with my STBX?


We are just about to sign our legal separation agreement and we are packing up the house to get it ready for sale, and I feel like an emotional wreck.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 12:30pm
I think at this point the best thing for you emotionally is probably to try to accept the fact that is' over and try to move on.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 6:20am
I think you have to let time be your friend. It's not going to happen overnight. Right now you're with him because of the house and other divorce stuff, but soon you'll have some space and time to reflect. Maybe with that time you'll grow stronger, realize you did do the things you should have to try and safe it, but in the end it wasn't meant to be. I'm sorry you're struggling. It is SOOO hard. Hang in there.