Why does he still make me feel
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| Thu, 02-01-2007 - 9:35am |
like I need to explain my actions to him? It's been over a year since he left and I've been doing quite well. For the most part I try to avoid any conversations with him at all. Yet, for some reason, he can still make me feel like I must be accountable to him for my every move. He feels it is his right to question me and for some reason I find myself trying to explain myself to him when I know it is none of his business. It's the things like "I saw you at such and such today, why weren't you at work?" or "I called last night to talk to the girls but there was no answer - where were you?" I know I should just tell him it's none of his business but after years and years of being controlled it's so hard to break out of the mold, ya know. I hate that he still has this power over me. * sigh*
Anyone else feel this way? Any advice?
Trudy
Edited 2/1/2007 9:39 am ET by tad123


I've been seperated for 14 months and still do the same at you and then kick myself for telling him! I am getting better though and will give him a roundabout answer like "I was with friends" or "I was out".
Keep working at it and don't let him get to you because it's not his business!!