Why is he so angry at me still?
Find a Conversation
Why is he so angry at me still?
| Mon, 07-21-2008 - 4:55pm |
Okay, so HE cheated, HE had the affair, HE got everything he wanted in the divorce, so why is HE so angry with ME?

Pages
I got the same treatment from the man that
CTD,
Glad you found us here. Hope you find support and ideas as you cope.
There's a couple different reasons the Ex who leaves or initiates the divorce get angry.
1)A process called "Villianization." This is where the spouse who wanted the divorce deflects blame for the end of the marriage back on the person they left. They can't accept any responsibility for leaving or having the affair, etc., so they have to make you look bad, i.e.
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
Because honey.....GUILT, GUILT, GUILT!!!!!!!
Sometimes I think they're mad because they don't have you to take care of things any more.
You've gotten some good advice.
Mainly.... you don't have to OWN what he's tossing your way.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Pages