why is it do difficult?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-05-2008
why is it do difficult?
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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 2:48pm

We're separated, do I call him my ex or not? My husband? and I have been separated since October of '06. He lives in his own home but he literally only sleeps there. He is with me and our girls all the time. His family doesn't even know we are not together. Only his mother and his sister know, everyone else is clueless. He still comes to all of the family functions - bbq's, birthdays, holidays, etc. We are together all the time, and then when it's time to go to beg he leaves and sleeps in his own place. He comes back in the morning and helps me get our girls ready for school, packs their lunches and then we all leave at the same time. On the weekends we're together all the time. At our girls' softball games, to the movies, other activities. We

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2007
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 3:32pm

Oh god! That is EXACTLY what i did! EXACTLY! We have been separated for 4 yrs, did lots of things together still as a family.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2008
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 4:39pm




Why did you originally separate?


I don't see why he lives elsewhere yet spends so much time with you.