WHY IS IT SO EASY FOR THEM TO MOVE ON!!!
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| Wed, 07-13-2005 - 4:35am |
I have been legally divorced from my ex for coming up on 3 years now. He has already moved on and remarried! He married his GF of 3 yrs (she works with him, do the math) and she has 3 kids from her two exes (2 from an ex husband and 1 from an ex boyfriend). My ex and I were together for 11 years and one week he is telling me and everyone else how much he loved me as a wife and mother (we have a son together) and the next week he says, "I just don't love you anymore. I don't want to be married anymore." And that was that. He quickly moved out and on with his life. I was left at home trying to explain why Daddy wasn't there to our then 4 yr. old son.
So fast forward to today, like I said, he is now married and here I am, still struggling in the dating world (which I hate). I'm not ugly, in pretty good shape thanks to working out my frustrations with exercise, I'm not a mean person, I'm not a bit#%, I have a decent job, I don't throw my son on men nor do I try to turn them into my son's Father, I'm a good person and I CONSTANTLY have people asking me why I don't have someone. I've dated but just haven't found Mr. Right. I'm just so frustrated! Why is it after all that man has put me through he walks away remarried and living happily ever after and I'm still struggling to do so?!?!?!? It's so unfair! My ex is such a jerk and has fought child support, visitation....EVERYTHING that regards our son. EVERYTHING with him is just a complete battle and power struggle on his part. He's just not a nice man! So WHY do bad guys finish first?!?! Why can't I find someone and live happily ever after too!!! UGH!!! NO JUSTICE!!!
It just always seems like the men move on much more quickly than women! Like heartless, careless bast*&ds totally disregarding ANY past they may have had with you!! I certainly don't love him anymore, actually his looks (and attitude) have SERIOUSLY gone down the drain, not to mention I now see what type of man he REALLY is, but it's just so unbelievable that he threw 11 years of our lives down the toilet, 11 years of history and growing up together....to then tell me he was tired of being married only to turn around and marry again a few years later, AND to a woman with 3 kids from 2 different men nonetheless! I just don't get it and everything is hunky dorey with him. WHY?!?!?!
Edited 7/14/2005 3:41 pm ET ET by sdnative1973

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