Wierd BD dinner w/ STBX

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wierd BD dinner w/ STBX
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Thu, 08-14-2008 - 12:24pm

STBX asked me if he could take me out to dinner on my BD.

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Registered: 03-11-2008
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 4:53pm

Sorry to hear about the negative dinner experience with STBX.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 5:10pm

whambulance.... ha ha ha ha ha!...


That whole dinner sounded weird.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 5:11pm
Vic's panty palace? Really? I'm just shaking my head. And the "to my wife" card just puts it all in the "bizarro" category for me, Music. He's just in his own little vortex, isn't he? Sorry it was so strange. But hey, a free meal is a free meal...LOL!
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 5:35pm
My EX would've done the same type thing... SICK!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 8:40pm

Music........it was me that made the comment about Whambulance.............wha wha, someone call the whambulance.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 10:48am

I never thought of it that way.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 10:59am

I really don't know what's in his mind and I'm not going to spend time figuring it out.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 11:13am

Half empty, half full.... I believe that if you look for doom and gloom, you'll find it.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 07-13-2008
Sat, 08-16-2008 - 4:54pm

Hello, I was reading your post and when your friend made the statement about how one day he is going to wake and realize he made a big mistake is what people are telling me and also what people are telling him. Also my husband mentioned that I deserve to be with someone better. Yes I do but I have been giving him the chance for years to be the one. But I guess it is in his blood (easier) for him to do what he wants with who he wants when he wants than to continue to be a family man. He really doesnt have it naturally to be settled down and all that goes with a marriage and kids. He tried for alot of years but I dont think it really was for him. I am not giving him excuses and I am not happy that things are the way they are But once he cheated again that was it for me so I kicked him out and once he was out he realized he wanted to stay out and have his freedom. I went through withdrawls of him been with him since I was 14 and now I am 45. Finally after 3 mos. I am finally going on with my life and know this is a dead end marriage. It has always been about him and now I am ready for my life to be about me. God has better things for me in my life and I am going to get it. I dont cry over him anymore or feel sorry for him because he is making a huge mistake. He is just going to have to wait and see and realize that the person who has always been there for him and was loyal to him is no longer his.


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Registered: 09-03-2003
Sat, 08-16-2008 - 7:22pm

Wow, That sounds horrible.

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