Wild, long time no see, remember me?

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Registered: 05-23-2005
Wild, long time no see, remember me?
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Mon, 05-23-2005 - 4:33am

It's been forever (Wow, almost 4 years now) so I won't hold it against you if you don't remember. I'd love to say I'm just visiting, but I'm really not. For those of you who don't know, and if Wild doesn't remember, I was going through a divorce about 4 years ago. Had gone through all the motions and only had to sign the final papers. To make a long story short, we got back together after 9-11. Things went great for a while and we even had another baby (I'm Mom to 3 now). Unfortunately, he's no longer in love with me and while there hasn't been any cheating, or anything really nasty, there is also no longer any love. I guess we're lucky in the fact that we still like each other. But I must admit that I'm feeling very depressed about the whole thing. Divorce hasn't been mentioned yet, but I don't see any way out of it. He refuses to do any sort of counseling. Anyway, I remember how much you all helped me out last time I was here and while at a quick glance I don't see Kat, or Deb, or many of the others that used to be here, I suppose that's a good thing. I'm happy to see you and Ken are still doing well Wild.

Pepper

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Tue, 05-24-2005 - 9:22am

HA! Joshua better NOT get any broken bones this summer. He has 2 summers in a row. This will be the first season, after baseball, that we are not going to do any sports! I get a break!! WHoohooo! After running for 6 years all year long with sports-I finally get a break. And when I finally do get a break, I'm going to have surgery. damnitalltohell!


Um, Pepper....I think I'll leave the surgery up to my surgeon ;) This is work comp so I dont give a hoot how much it costs. I'll be getting "paid" while I'm off, but only 66 2/3% of my pay-NOT including my bonuses :(


Jen, Do you want me to post those pictures? I will if you want me to but didn't want to do it without you saying it was OK...


By the way, BSSG is Betrayed Spouse Support Group. It's the same board I hosted up til last year.


Karen, to be able to go on a vacation would be *sweet* right about now. There's no way I could swing that this year especially. I'm going to live vicariously through you!


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Tue, 05-24-2005 - 10:41am
First off Deb, you're killing me in that you have a countdown to "Back to school" and school isn't even over for the summer yet! And I simply can't understand why you won't let me do the surgery. wild, I am so envious of you! I love Gatlenburg, only been there once. So you'll have to give all the details of your visit. I'm off to run some errands now and then I've got a soccer game tonight - hopefully all those young 20-something year olds will take it easy on this old woman! ;-) MIL watches the kids on soccer night. It's very cool since she's retired AND she likes me better than her own son :-D HA HA - small immature jab but it feels SOOOOO good (evil laugh) It tickles me that my father hates my SO, but his parents both like me. His mom doesn't try to hide that she likes me better (sort of sad in a big way for him - I honestly wish she wasn't quite so open about her favoritism of me) But even his dad supported me last time we went though this - though he stayed nutral and didn't want to discuss it at all with either of us. I'm very ok with that. Anyway, since I'm still a sahm for the present time, I can bee bop in and out of here several times a day, so I'll check up on you guys later. Hmmmmmm. Should I stick around here Wild? Do you think they are ready for my warped sense of humor? Or will they just think I'm crazy? lmao! Catch you guys again soon.
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Tue, 05-24-2005 - 10:49am

I can't speak for everyone.... but I like a warped sense of humor tossed into my day


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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