Will I ever get over it?
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Will I ever get over it?
| Tue, 10-11-2005 - 1:45pm |
I am recently seperated. He moved out Aug 20th. I thought we would seperate and then come back fresh to the relationship and work it out. Once he moved out he wouldn't call and I was patient just called a couple of times during the week to see what's up. He never called back. I then heard froma friend that he was seen out with another girl. I found out, the day after he moved out, he went out with this new girl. I was devasted. I couldn't beleive it. I tried calling but no answer, and I even sent email. I know the curse of email. But no reply. I asked him to work it out with me that I never thought it was final and wrote intimate email with promises of a fresh start and everything.
But I found out he forwarded all my email messages to her to read. I'm shocked and so upset. I can't even think straight. Its been over a month and I just can't stop crying. Our town is small and people keep telling me how they see him around with her. I even found out he booked a photographer for their wedding! He's not even divorced yet!
I don't know how to move on. Its been so hard and I'm just so lost. Has anyone experienced this?
But I found out he forwarded all my email messages to her to read. I'm shocked and so upset. I can't even think straight. Its been over a month and I just can't stop crying. Our town is small and people keep telling me how they see him around with her. I even found out he booked a photographer for their wedding! He's not even divorced yet!
I don't know how to move on. Its been so hard and I'm just so lost. Has anyone experienced this?

Yes, I've been there. He kicked me out Aug. 8 moved his gf in 2wks later, and it wasn't the same girl he cheated on me with. It's been very hard, and it still is, but it's something we can do. I've recently started dating a very sweet man, who works out of town, and he helps me he talks to me, he holds me when I cry and I honestly don't think it's a rebound thing. Honey, get out of the house and get moving. Do things with your friends to ocupy your time. I never stop, I don't slow down, I work all day and loaf all evening until bedtime. I'm 26 today and I'm going out tonight with a girlfriend of mine. My mans out of town he won't be back until Oct. 20 but we have to learn to be alone that's the hard part. I've been lonley married never lonely alone, it's totally different. It just takes time, and that's all you got is time. Take time for your self do what ever you want to do. FREE!!! FREE!!! Spread your wings girl and FLY FREE!!!!
Stacy