Women's Bodies Are Like Trash Recepticle

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Registered: 01-29-2006
Women's Bodies Are Like Trash Recepticle
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 3:25pm

I was watching a little Oprah this afternoon and I just HAD to share what the guest psychologist said. The segment was about a 16 year old girl who was having lots of sex and she wants to stop but loves the attention, etc... Jada Pinkett Smith (from the couch) told her she had the same problem because she grew up without a male figure. The Dr. in the crowd told the young lady that "women's bodies are like trash recepticles for men to put their sperm and other junk into... and the worst part is that they are putting it in US and then we pass it on..." I think it's time to take the garbage out ladies !

Laura

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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 4:25pm

I don't like the parallel being made between

Peace,

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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 5:42pm
I had a friend once who told her dd's that teenage boys were using them like "masturbating tools." I don't see that this is much different. It is kind of funny IF you are old enough to see the humor and not take it seriously. However, to tell a teenage girl who hasn't had a male role model in her life this, it's turning her against men, turning her into a man-hater. Not good!

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Sun, 03-19-2006 - 2:45pm

I saw the same show Laura and it was so sad. The psychologist was saying that we let them use us as trash recepticles. (Of course, not all men do this.) Not only in the sense of depositing their sperm, but dumping their inadequecies on us. I think that can go both ways as far as genders go, but the premise of THAT show was how women (and I don't know the statistics) tend to allow that type of poor behavior happen towards them more than the other way.

Young (and old) girls today are so looking for attention that they immdeiatly go "all the way" for that connection with a male that it usually comes back to bite them. The girls there felt used and confused. They didn't act respectible and they weren't respected. But, try this scenario, you happen across a person in the street. They have a stack of cash in their hand and they are having some kind of crisis and have asked several people to help them. Finally they ask you and they claim they will give you all that $$. Do you take the cash? Or do you just he right thing? Even walking away is better than taking tons of $$ from someone that you do not deserve (hence Anna Nicole Smith, even old men fall in the trap) Boys need to be educated to respect women/girls. (what happened to that, BTW?) They need to understand that many girls are just starved for attention and just jumping in the sack with them (even if they say they want it, too) is a very harmful act.

We ALL need to be able to put our own heads on our pillows at night. Right?

IMHO, Jan

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Tue, 03-21-2006 - 8:34am
I take offense with the statement too. I am in love with a beautiful and loving woman. Trash receptacle doesn't come to mind when I think of her. Sometimes people can be done so wrong that they develop really bad self image and self esteem. And for the record, she was raped three times by family members she trusted. You would never know it unless you got her to open up about it. I hope that doctor did not truly mean that, if she said it.