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worse feeling ever
| Wed, 06-04-2008 - 2:34pm |
This is my story, me and my wife have been going through some hard times in the past 2 years because she had an affair with a guy she worked with and it has been hell for me to forgive her for that and i finally did about 9 months ago. because she told me she was in love with me and she didnt know what she was doing she was out of her mind at the time. So i forgave her because we have 2 kids together and i thought i owed it to them to try and work it out. But, just this weekend has been the worse weekend of my life, it started out that my wife had a golf outing for work and she would be gone all day, and iam going to college right now so i had finals to study for this weekend so my parents came and got the kids so i could study. So about mid after noon that day this guys wife who she had an affair with before calls me and says Is your wife going to the golf outing, and i says yes why, she says is she going to go get drinks with these certain people after that and i said yes . So me and holly show up at the bar where they were supposed to be and they never showed up, they were never anywhere they said they were going to be. So my wife calls me and says im at this roxann girls house and were just laying around because were tired. I said ok whatever i didnt let on that i was looking for her. so i hung up the phone and as soon as i do holly calls me and says "did you just talk to your wife" and i said yes. She says i just talked to me husband too how convenient. And i says yeah she says shes at this roxann girls house. And she says no shes not i just drove by her house and nobody is there. I thought son of a bitch. So I call my wife and she says yeah were still at roxanns and i said you are such a liar, and we get into this big fight over the phone and denys everything and she hangs up on me. I then get a call from holly and she tells me that her husband admitted everything and that they have been seeing each other since

Amcas,
Just read your post and wondered how things were. Maybe you should get together with the other mans' wife? Just kidding. But thank goodness she called you because this could've dragged on and on without you knowing a thing. How old are your children?
If you are in college, I am assuming that you have a lot of life left to live. Your feelings that you have right now, you've had them before, although this time is harder. Don't take her back. Shame on her and this guy, and you will be better off in the long run. I know that is hard to believe, but have faith. You will survive.
My children were young, under a year and 3 1/2 when my H and I split.