WOW! Big Finanacial Dilemma!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2004
WOW! Big Finanacial Dilemma!
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Mon, 03-17-2008 - 11:33pm

I think STBX is hiding money.... Now I know that in the past everyone has responded with immediately get a lawyer...... BUT if I do that the gloves are off and the biggest loser besides me would totally be the kids.


He has agreed to mediation BUT as I saw tonight not much is coming into our joint account. He has blamed it on the economy but as I know in the past depending on our and his business partners position certain monies have been available when necessary. So I am very leary, but not ready to accuse openly.


Not sure how to strategize at this point. I have secured certain assets without his knowledge but not nearly enough to balance what he has in his business or to keep me home with my children until their in school.


UGGGGHHHH!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2003
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 8:16am

Memphis - you have a good insite into the situation.


As to the mediation - its not going to work.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2006
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 8:46am

Memphis,


You're in denial.


Get a lawyer. So you'll have a blow up? So what? Then, it will be out in the open and you can get on with things.


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