XH moved and hasn't told me yet
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| Mon, 07-17-2006 - 9:46pm |
XH and I have every other week in summer. Friday to Friday. My DD has been telling me when I go back with my dad (which he picked her up last Friday) I am going to have a new house. Yeah great whatever. Well I live an hour away from XH. I am custodial parent and his GF which he lives with comes where I live to the hospital I work at. She is prego right now. I have to admit her stuff into the computer and well lookey there her address changed with his cell phone number as the home phone.
He has had our DD since last Friday and has NOT informed the court that his address changed and I have no frickin clue where abouts this house is at. The town he lives in is way bigger than mine. His family lives in the ghetto in some parts. Not knocking it because I don't live in a mansion. But the crime rate where he is at is TERRIBLE but I have no clue what part of town he is at. My sister lives in a nearby town closer to where he lives and she is going to drive by it tomorrow and let me know.
Do I think my XH would intentionally allow our DD to not be safe. No. Do I think he would allow her to be outside playing with no one watching her in a new neighborhood. Absolutely!!
I know that his one sister used to always live in the crack alleys. I know if anything he is probably going to say "I don't live with her."
But my DD will tell me. My stomach is in knots!!!

Does your divorce agreement/custody agreement address this (letting each other know your current address)?
If so, make him a copy of that page, and highlight the section... and give it to him with a letter stating that you need his current address and phone info.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~