XIL's.... HOORAY FOR ME!

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XIL's.... HOORAY FOR ME!
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Thu, 06-16-2005 - 12:26pm

Alright, I just got an email from XH's cousin asking for XH's address so they could invite XH and OW to the F family campout.


I gave her the address and I AM NOT HURT THAT SHE DIDNT INVITE ME! I AM NOT UPSET AND I AM NOT AT ALL MAD THAT SHE ASKED FOR XH's ADDRESS FROM ME. I AM NOT JEALOUS, HURT or UPSET :) ( they invited me last year and I turned them down because I wanted XH to start talking to and seeing his family again, I thought if I declined in bringing the kids down that he would feel guilty enough to.... didn't work )


WOOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOO!


Could it be? Am I finally over this?


WOW, HUGE milestone for me.... I thought I would NEVER get here.


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Registered: 06-11-2004
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 1:03pm
You go Girl, I had a bit of a moment like that myself. I guess we are getting there. Yeah for us.
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Thu, 06-16-2005 - 2:07pm

Way to go!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Thu, 06-16-2005 - 2:44pm

I'm not there yet, but GOOD for you!!!! You needed that!!!

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 2:59pm

Thanks guys :)


I am so syked!


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Registered: 10-20-2004
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 4:50pm
congratulations! that must feel great. i separated last fall and my ex mil didn't even send me a birthday card this year -- crazy to be upset, but she still comes here to pick the kids up for a few hours a month and now that her son who cheated and she is upset with is no longer married to me, she decided to cut me out too. so, my point is this: i aspire to be where you are.
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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 8:59am

I completely understand about the birthday card. It's funny, the same thing happened to me last Xmas. My XFIL sent me a large check and a card the Xmas before, 6 months after H left, but this year I got nada... not even a card. Actually I sent out pictures of the kids and sent cards to everyone on that side of the family, I didnt get one card in return... so I decided to stop doing that.


Thanks for the congrats. It's all about time :) Everything will work out, hugs to you :)


Angelena

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Registered: 09-28-2004
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 5:56pm

Now THAT is GREAT NEWS!!!! Whoo hoo!!!!! (does happy dance)

And the card thing - two years ago, my stbx and I separated for a week, because he cheated. (and like a yutz, I took him back). But no b-day card for me that year! So when we separated last summer, I didn't expect anything. And I got nothing. Not for Christmas, b-day, nada. But, I look at it this way, my Christmas card list also decreased by about twenty people ;)

And besides, like dear old Dad used to say - "What you don't get, you don't have to say thank you for."

Right on, Dad.