Yahoo! STBX out of town

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Registered: 03-11-2008
Yahoo! STBX out of town
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Mon, 07-21-2008 - 10:45am

Yes, STBX is out of town this week for work. I am going to sleep in the master bedroom and I am looking forward to having my bed back. I bought the furniture with my inheritance from my dad's estate, but STBX is sleeping in bedroom and I been sleeping in spare bedroom on his old childhood bunkbed for about a year now. It's better than sleeping with the enemy. Some peace. Someone said to move out his stuff in the spare room and put a lock on the master bedroom door. Hmmm.... But that would just be a power struggle and he's so stubborn he would just bang down the door or something.
Even tho he knows he's not going to be staying in the house after the divorce, but he's still there.

I am looking forward to some time alone in my bed and bedroom.

Also, I he asked if I would want to take his car in for an oil change while he's gone. I said no. Duh!! doesn't he get it. I can't believe he had the bal..s to ask.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 1:10pm
Sounds like something my STBX would do.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 2:44pm

Yep sounds familiar.

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Registered: 03-11-2008
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 8:25am

Wouldn't you consider that a dependent personality?