You won't believe this...

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
You won't believe this...
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Tue, 08-05-2008 - 11:07am

So STBX is physically out of the house, but at the rate he is moving his things out, it will be at the end of the year by the time his stuff is gone.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2008
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 11:17am

Sounds familiar to when my stbx is in town. He comes over in the guise of taking things then follows me around as if he's wanting to talk but just hovers. then takes nothing. He makes comments about how we ought to separate things & change the bills over but never makes a move or moves anything out...arrgh!!

what is with these men? What is with us? I hope I can find the will power you seem to have found & finally tell mine to do things himself that if he doesn't want me to be his wife anymore than those frills are gone too.

Your ability to do that gives me a glimpse of light at the end of the tunnel

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Registered: 06-03-2008
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 12:22pm







iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 1:00pm

Dear April,


NO, NO NO!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2008
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 1:57pm




Ok, I see.




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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 9:07pm

I understand you're exasperation, and your're not wanting to engage in a fight/arguement with him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2008
Wed, 08-06-2008 - 7:34am

Good Morning MusicLover....

I would use this to my advantage. Go to Target and pick him up a small vacuum cleaner and then drop it off to him with 4 or 5 loads of his stuff. There is noting that says he has to sort HIS stuff at your house?

He is finally realizing that he is going to be alone and is stalling.

You are still up for Sainthood in my book.

I imagine the kids are really enjoying the peace and quiet of the house.

stunned08

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 08-06-2008 - 10:44am

Last night he came over and went through a pile of stuff in the entertainment unit that he brought from his last house which has been sitting in the basement.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2008
Wed, 08-06-2008 - 2:23pm

Would you be able to say "Here, let me help you load your car with a few boxes or put your clothes in there".

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 08-06-2008 - 3:24pm

I agree w/ your last statement.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2008
Wed, 08-06-2008 - 3:51pm

After my STBX

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