young and Separated
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young and Separated
| Sat, 02-04-2006 - 10:15am |
My husband and I separated last week and I'm having a really hard time. We have been together for 8 years and married for 8 months. He has been treating me very badly over the past few months, ignoring me and basically treating our dog better than me. I finally confronted him and asked him why he was acting this way and he said that he didn't love me anymore and was confused about what he wants in his life. He doesn't know if he wants to be married and said a separation would help him figure it out. After a lot of discussion, he made ME leave the house (b/c he said that he bought it before we ewre married so technically it's his...that really made me mad) and hasn't had any contact with me since I left last week. I just don't know what to do. I am dying to talk to him, he is my best friend. One of my friends thinks that he might be depressed and doesn't know how to handle it. He NEVER acted this way before we were married...he used to bring me flowers and take me places, then all of a sudden he stopped and started treating me so badly. Should I call him or wait for him to call me? I am also very frustrated at his parents....they have had no contact with me this entire week which blows my mind. I don't know who someone can just stop caring about a person who has been in their lives for 8 years. I guess I shouldn't be too confused on that subject considering their son had been ignoring me as well. Anyways, I am only 27 and would love some advice from people who have gone thorugh this b/c none of my friends have. How long do I have to wait to have contact....or should he be the one to make the first move?

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