conviencing my daughter her ex is dangerous
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|Thu, 01-10-2013 - 5:23pm|
Short version, long story! My daughter has ended a year long relationship with a man who, unknow to her the first 2 months they dated, was married. When he admitted to having a wife, he told her his wife was having an affair and they were in the middle of a divorce, non of which was true. When my daughter tried to get him to move from their apartment they got in a fight in which she broke a speaker of his. The police were called by a nieghbor that heard a man yelling, upon their arrival she was arrested since she had broke the speaker. She was arrested on a domestic violence charge!! A protective order was put against her since he was the victim. He worked very hard to get it removed and did, but now he will not leave her alone and the DV charge is still against her. He has gone crazy as she does not want to date him anymore. He got into her cell phone account and found everybody she was talking to, if he could not figure out who they were using on-line searches he actually called the numbers seeing if they were female or males Fast forward, she went on a date, last night. And as she left the show they were at, he drove by, he had got into her e-mail and saw her online ticket purchase so he knew where she was going. She told her date the whole story and about that time her dates cell phone is blown up with calls, texts and messages from the ex. The date is so freaked out he decides he should stay at my daughters house just in case crazy comes by, and he does. He shows up (he had her address even though we moved her to a new apartment because he is the victim in the DV case) pounds on the door threatening to call the police and have her arrested again if she does not answer!! Anyway, crazy right? My daughter does not see how dangerous this man can be. I have 45 text messages to me in a 24 hours period from him, one saying "he cannot be without her" REALLY!! Sorry for the vent, I am just so upset.