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|Tue, 02-04-2014 - 12:33am|
I found out yesterday that my husband is/was having an emotional affair. He'd been acting strange lately such as asking when I would be home or the dates of my upcoming business trip. He also was coming to bed unusually late. He started to be worried about me using his phone which is not normal behavor for him. I finally did something I know was wrong but I checked his email on his IPad when he was out. I found several emails to a girl he "met" on my free cams. There were several message mostly sexual some not. He wrote her poetry and said she inspired him. Also talked about his dissatisfaction w me saying I do not want sex enough. They live in separate cities but talked about meeting in person. she's married w kids and wanted to meet my husband in person at a bar with her husband. Said they'd act like they didn'to know each other but would strike up a conversation as if they're strangers. He said neither of them had intentions of bring physical but wanted to see each other in person. He swears had never wanted to have sex with her and this was just a fantasy. I know out marriage is in trouble. Other than therapy I don't know what to do from here. Any suggestions from people who've faced similar situations is much appreciated.