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|Tue, 04-01-2003 - 12:55pm|
Last month I celebrated my 9th wedding anniversary, but I am not IN LOVE any more. My husband is wonderful, a provider and a man of great faith. I love him, I feel secure around him, but I am afraid the passion is gone. And it is showing up now in bed, no passion. I told him that our life is to boring and we need to do something urgently because we are in danger of losing each other.
I dont want to make it a sex thing, but I dont feel sexy around him, I feel like his roommate with sex on the side. This has been an on going thing for a while, we are both working and with four children, house chores and little exact cash for anything beside the bills, our relationship is dying a slow painful death. We are not fighting we are just co existing and raring are children together...
My husband is a dibetic and experiences ED so I dont want in to seems that I am not there in sickness...but I dont want life to pass by and we dont enjoy it together.
PS: Honesty and compassion is greatly appreciate from all.