Update on my friend! :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2006
Update on my friend! :)
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Thu, 09-12-2013 - 3:16pm

I have great news!!! My friend whom I had talked about being in that controlling relationship...well I heard from her today and she is not married to that guy anymore.SHe is now married to someone else whom she met on POF. I was so happy to hear that she's not married to that controller that I'm not shocked that she is now married to someone else.This person fits her.She is so happy.You can hear it in her voice. She has invited me and others to have lunch at her home.I told her to please call back all her friends because I'm sure that they miss her. I"m so happy to hear this news!!! She is the most kindest,generous person.I glad that she finally found her man..a good one who treats her with respect.

And yeah...I know she married the guy quickly BUT I just want her to be happy.I will meet her husband soon.Maybe GOD had it planned this way for her.Finally,I'll be able to see my friend again and she will not be in that dark place.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Mon, 10-07-2013 - 11:34pm
A fast marriage means not knowing the guy fully, and that's never a good thing. Abusers are famous for quick marriages - they only have to keep up the charade of being a great guy a short time before their victim is fully stuck in the relationship. Your friend also didn't give herself time to find herself or get some therapy to resolve the issues she has. None of those things speak to being happy long term. I hope she's an exception to the rule.

~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Mon, 10-07-2013 - 11:35pm

Posted a duplicate in error!


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_