When it time to let go

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Registered: 04-01-2013
When it time to let go
Mon, 04-01-2013 - 9:33pm

I  was in a relationship for 13 months.. I truly love this man and still do.. But in the course of our relationship he left me four times!! Back in Jan I thought everything's was good between us.. We had a disagremeant and he pack his stuff and left me again for the fourth and final time. When he left my world was shatter .. I bing drink for 10 days after he left.. (For the grace of God I am clean and sober today) Alcohol did play a part of him leaving me but the last time he left I was getting help.. Fast forward to today after two and half month after our break up he call me yesterday.. He said that he was sorry and that he love me. That I am a wonderful woman ., He said to  me all i wanted to hear.. I told him that i still love him and miss him but that we are not meant to be. He have a new girlfriend and here he is trying to get back with me..As much as I love him .. I must let go because if I take him back he leave me again !! It feel so good to do was right and not be run by my emotions.  

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Registered: 05-14-2001
Wed, 04-03-2013 - 12:10am

Good for you Serenity!  Both for getting help and for refusing his attempt to pull you back in.  I think the fact that he has a girlfriend but is trying to get you back says volumes about his character and his fidelity -- he's not worth your time.  I'm also hoping you'll put some work into looking into why you love a man who is unreliable and  walks away instead of working to resolve problems which is a controlling strategy.  I'm betting if you think about it you love what he was in the beginning or what you think he has potential of being rather than loving a man who's a cheater who walks out.  

Stay strong and true to what is best for you!

~ cl-2nd_life

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Registered: 08-03-2013
Sat, 08-03-2013 - 1:16am

I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank Dr agbadi for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found Dr agbadi a male spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and she assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for long, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to devote the rest of his life with me. Priestessyewa released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have to share together. As I’m writing this testament right now I’m the cheeriest girl on earth and me and my fiancé is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.
All thanks goes to priestessyewa for the excessive work that she has done for me. Below is his email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. dragbadilaguspelltemple@gmail.com.

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Registered: 09-14-2007
Wed, 08-07-2013 - 3:58pm

Because you took him back the first time, you've let him know what you'll accept.  Take him back again, he'll leave you a 5th time.  13 months?  Love him so deeply?  Within the 13 month period you're still high on the feel good chemicals our brains produce when a relationship is new.