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|Sun, 09-16-2012 - 2:35am|
I've been in a relationship for almost a year, next Sunday will be one year together... First anniversary.
I was excited about the date and expected we would do something special, but turns out he's going out of town to a concert with a friend. He says they've been doing it for couple years, planned it couple months ago (he never mentioned this before), and he will be back in time for us going out to dinner; that would be good if not for the fact that we dine out every week, and use to have little getaways on special dates.
He's 50 and I'm 45, and so far the relationship has been good, but this anniversary issue has upset me big time. It's not about the date anymore, but the fact that he is sorry but still thinks he hasn't done nothing wrong, after all he will be back for dinner! I feel postponed and wonder if this is a signal that sadly I'm not a priority in his life.
I learned the hard way that when one bend too much in a relationship, end broken. I'm considering breaking up but I love him and I'm confused of which way to go.