Confused and need some help

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2012
Confused and need some help
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Thu, 02-02-2012 - 12:06pm

Hi I am very confused in my relationship right now and I don't know what to do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-23-2010
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 12:47pm

Ugh, unfortunately I can relate to you with regards to follow-through on larger issues such as discussing future and actually moving through with it.

I would say that he may not have the cash to move in right now but might be too embarassed to admit this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2012
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 8:06pm
So what did you do in your situation? I have tried talking to him but he never really wants to talk. He will usually say "what are you talking about?" or "youre tripping". Sometimes I think he just tells me what I want to hear also. I know what I want so I can't understand why it is so hard for him to make a decision :-/
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 12:20am

Missrissa, can I delve deeper into your problem?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 9:08am

Hi true, missrissa has another post on the Ask The Relationship Saver board that may provide some background:

http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/Ask-Dr-Shoshanna/Confused-and-not-sure-what-to-do/m-p/118872899/message-uid/118872899#U118872899