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|Wed, 09-12-2012 - 11:16pm|
Need some help in making a decision.
My H & I have been M for 12 yrs. We only had Sex for 4 months of our marriage (at the beginning). Then once more when our son was conceived. When we were dating we had sex, but then one day, he said he wanted to wait until we were married. What do you say to that? Anyway, I need intimacy after my son was born and developed an emotional relationship with someone else, this ended after many years when it almost turned to a physical relationship. Then the next year I met someone when I was on a business trip and began a 2 yrs affair. This just ended 2 weeks ago. My H found out about the A a few months after it began and said nothing. He just treated me even worse and drank so much that he was hospitalized. Last year I told him I was unhappy. I then found out that he was in trying to begin a relationship with a woman that he met. After I found out, she stopped talking to him. He then tried to hook up with woman that he met online. Now he is saying that he only did those things because he thought I had cheated on him. My question to him is what is his excuse for the previous 10 yrs and he says I need to quit living in the past. He is now trying to hug & kiss me. I'm afraid to trust him. I don't want to be vulnerable again and then be back to where I have been. I want to be happy with someone that I can talk to and who wants to cuddle with me & touch me. Should I give him another chance? I'm so confused.